Common Courtesy Isn’t Hard: Don’t Be a Prick

HyunMay 8, 2026other

screenshots were sent to me by a friend, I just came back home recently, and wasn't aware of what happened until someone told me about it

Key point here is to maybe not be a prick, I'll censor and redact some curse words to keep this article family friendly.

edit before posting: I'll also write down what I think about proxies at the very bottom of the article.


Anyways, as of writing this, the guy in the article has apologized to me, and will apologize to the other people he badmouthed within a few days, so please don't send any hate towards him.

Feelings can get messy sometimes, but thats just normal behavior, controlling those emotions is something else tho


Too lazy to write up a TLDR for this one, so grab some popcorn and enjoy the show



HOLY ITS TONY STARK!!!!!

True, I very much agree with Quid, nobody likes a hateful person


Anyways, in case you wanna see the stuff he alleged I said to him:

Here's the chats from Indonesia's discord.
(Text in red were deleted messages, but too bad cuz server admins can still see them via quark logs)

Nearly every major country in this game has proxies, its part of the game, everyone uses it, the goal is to stay within the confines of the rules and play fairly.

Proxies are all over the world.
Indonesia is part of the world. 🤷‍♂️


Okay maybe I will write what I think about proxies.

As much as I dont like them, they're basically part of the game at this point, the goal is not to keep things fair and stay within the rules.

But what if that proxy country gets a baby boom?
So what? As long as the players in those proxies can guide the new players well enough, they'll eventually grow some form of Stockholm syndrome and some form of loyalty towards their mentors. Which can be beneficial for everyone.

Kysely is one of the best examples of this, a lot of people in the Indonesian community may not like him, but you have to give him some respect for putting the Philippines in a very good spot. Guiding 200+ players to that point is not easy.

PH basically got a veteran player who knew the ins and outs of the game, they also never had to worry about MUs like Indonesia does. And their players are far richer than us. Anyway, I don't wanna get too carried away with that, so lets leave it there.

Just don't be that guy that abuses a proxy to benefit another country, and then proceed to get kicked out cuz everyone hates you for being really controlling and manipulative to your community.


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