Discover Serbia #2: Slava

Close up of Slavski Kolač

If you arrive at a Serbian home on the right day of the year, you may find something happening that has no exact equivalent in most of the Christian world. Before you have properly taken off your coat, someone may place a tray in front of you containing a bowl of sweetened wheat and a small glass of red wine; you congratulate the family, cross yourself, take a little wine and žito according to the custom of that household, cross yourself again, and only then are you really ready to join the table.

You have arrived at a Slava.

Slava, or Krsna Slava, is the annual celebration of a family's patron saint, inherited from one generation to the next and traditionally passed through the male family line. A household celebrating Saint Nicholas this year will ordinarily celebrate Saint Nicholas next year, and the son who eventually establishes a household of his own usually carries the same saint with him, which means that the date can remain fixed while houses, cities and even countries change around the family.

In 2014, UNESCO placed Slava on the Representative List of the Intangible Cultural Heritage of Humanity, describing it as a tradition through which families maintain a sense of identity and continuity across generations.

A Thousand Year Old Custom

One family celebrates Nikoljdan, Saint Nicholas; another celebrates Aranđelovdan, Archangel Michael; others have Jovanjdan, Đurđevdan or one of many other patron saints.

The important distinction is that the saint normally belongs to the family tradition rather than the individual person. A man named Nikola might celebrate Saint George while a man called Đorđe celebrates Saint Nicholas, because Slava does not work like a name day and the patron is not selected according to your own first name.

Slava prepared for the veneration of John the Baptist

The saint is regarded as the protector and intercessor of the household, but this should not be misunderstood as a Christian family simply replacing God with a smaller private deity. In Orthodox Christianity, worship belongs to God, while saints are honoured and asked to intercede before God; the prayers, bread, wine, candle and religious symbolism of Slava ultimately belong within Christian worship centred on Christ.

That distinction becomes especially important when discussing where Slava may have come from, because one of the most famous Serbian explanations for its origin begins long before Christianity.

Preslava

Some Serbian families also observe a Preslava or simply the “small Slava.” It is a secondary feast connected with the household and is usually celebrated more modestly than the main Krsna Slava, often only with close family and a few guests.

In some families it is the second feast day of the same saint, for example, a family whose main Slava is Đurđevdan in May may also mark Đurđic in November, while in others the Preslava honours another saint who became important to the family through inheritance, marriage or a particular family tradition.

A woman could, for example, continue to honour the saint of the household she was born into after marrying into a family with a different Slava. Unlike the main Krsna Slava, however, Preslava is generally a quieter observance and does not replace the family's principal patron saint.

Inside The Temple of Saint Sava

Origins of Slava

There is no single proven historical explanation for the birth of Slava, and ethnologists have argued about its origins for generations, but one enduring theory connects it with the pre-Christian Slavic household cult, when families or kin groups maintained particular protectors and strong religious connections with their ancestors.

The popular Serbian version of the story goes further and brings in someone readers of the first Discover Serbia article have already met: Saint Sava.

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In my article about Hilandar, Saint Sava appeared as Rastko Nemanjić, the Serbian prince who became a monk on Mount Athos and eventually the first archbishop of the independent Serbian Church. Serbian tradition also credits him with giving Slava much of its Christian form, adapting older customs instead of attempting to destroy every familiar practice surrounding the household. Serbian Orthodox sources themselves preserve the tradition that Sava replaced older household sacrifices with the candle, wheat and bread of Christian Slava.

The story is often retold very simply: the old Slavs had gods such as Perun, Triglav, Yarilo, and others, while individual households also had their own sacred traditions and protectors; as Christianity spread, these older forms of household devotion were gradually redirected toward Christian saints, so that instead of invoking an old divine protector a family now honoured Saint Nicholas, Saint George, Saint John or another saint of the Church.

Perun, the thunder god, is frequently compared with Saint Elijah, who also became associated in Balkan folklore with thunder and storms, while other older customs were gradually absorbed into the Christian calendar.

It would be too neat to imagine Saint Sava literally walking from house to house asking every pagan family which god they worshipped and assigning them a replacement saint from a list. By Sava's lifetime in the early thirteenth century, the Christianization of the Serbs had already been underway for centuries, and the old Slavic religion itself is known imperfectly. The story is better understood as a memory of a much longer process in which an older family-centred religious culture survived by being given a Christian meaning. Historians have likewise identified Slava as a centuries-old folk-religious institution whose ritual came increasingly under the influence of the Serbian Church from the medieval period onward.

Savindan being celebrated in an elementary school

Saint Sava eventually acquired a Slava of his own on a scale few other saints could match.

Savindan, Saint Sava's feast on 27 January, became the traditional Slava of Serbian schools. Saint Sava was formally established as the school patron in the nineteenth century; the school celebration disappeared from official socialist education after 1945 and was restored in Serbia in 1990. Today schools across the country mark Savindan with the Slava bread, ceremonies, performances and the hymn to Saint Sava.

So Slava does not necessarily belong only to a family. Churches, villages, institutions and organizations can have patronal celebrations as well, although family Slava remains the form most closely associated with Serbian culture.

Serbian, but not exclusively

Slava is overwhelmingly identified with the Serbian Orthodox tradition, and Serbs remain its principal cultural bearers, but the custom is not perfectly confined by either ethnicity or modern borders. Serbia's own register of intangible heritage notes that family patron-saint celebrations are also practiced by Orthodox families from some other ethnic communities in Serbia.

Bosnia and Herzegovina has a particularly strong Slava tradition among its Serbian Orthodox population, while ethnographers have also documented forms of Krsna Slava among Roman Catholic Croats in Herzegovina and in the Neretva valley of Croatia. Research from the Neretva region records Catholic families celebrating hereditary patrons including Saint Nicholas, Saint Michael, Saint John and others, and related patron-family customs have also been documented among certain Montenegrin and Albanian communities.

The Serbian form remains the best known and most continuously developed version, but this wider distribution is a good reminder that Balkan cultural boundaries have rarely followed modern ethnic and religious lines perfectly.

Family wearing Traditional Serbian Attire

Celebrating Slava

For visitors, Slava usually means the crowded house and enormous table, but much of the important ritual happens before the first guest arrives.

The family prepares the Slavski kolač, the ceremonial round bread decorated with Christian symbols, frequently including the seal ИС ХС НИ КА, meaning “Jesus Christ Conquers.” Beside it is žito, cooked wheat usually mixed with sugar and walnuts; a large Slava candle is prepared near the family icon, and red wine is set aside for the ceremony.

The bread is not simply cut in the kitchen like an ordinary loaf. Depending on family and local custom, the domaćin may take the kolač and žito to church in the morning, where a priest blesses them and performs the rite, or the priest may come to the home. The priest and the domaćin, the head of the celebrating household, turn the bread, cut it crosswise, pour wine over it and break it, often with the family participating in turning and raising the kolač.

This is usually done before the house fills with visitors, which means the guests who arrive later see the feast but may never see one of the central moments of the Slava itself.

The four ritual objects tell most of the story on their own.

The candle represents the light of Christ and traditionally burns through much of the celebration. The wine carries obvious Christian Eucharistic associations with the blood of Christ. The bread recalls Christ and the shared life of the household, while the wheat carries one of Christianity's oldest images of death and resurrection: a grain enters the earth and appears to die before giving new life.

Those simple objects come before the mountain of sarma, roast meat, cakes and rakija that everybody remembers afterward.

Being a Guest

This is where Slava becomes something you participate in rather than simply watch.

The domaćin welcomes the arriving guest, who congratulates the family with some form of “Srećna slava”, often followed by wishes for health and for the family to celebrate the saint together for many more years.

Main Symbols of Slava

Customs vary from household to household, but in many Serbian homes the guest is presented with žito and red wine before taking a place at the table. A common form is to cross oneself, take a small sip of wine, cross again, take a spoonful of žito, and cross once more; elsewhere the order is simpler, with the guest crossing himself, taking the žito and wine and crossing again before sitting down. Traditional descriptions consistently place the serving of žito immediately after the guest arrives, before the main meal begins.

The point is not that everyone must execute precisely the same sequence like a military drill. Regional and family customs differ enormously, and a guest unfamiliar with the ritual is hardly going to be thrown out for crossing himself one time too few.

The important thing is that you do not simply walk in and start eating. You first acknowledge why everyone is gathered there.

Only then does the table take over.

Head of the Table

The traditional host of the Slava is the domaćin, usually the senior man of the household, although modern family circumstances naturally produce many variations.

His job was historically much more demanding than simply owning the house where everybody happened to be eating. He welcomed each new arrival, poured drinks, served guests, participated in the ritual of the bread and maintained order around the table; in some Serbian regions the custom known as dvorenje slave expected him to remain standing for much of the feast, sometimes for as long as the Slava candle burned, because his role was to serve the saint and the people who had entered his home.

Then there is the čelo stola, the head of the table.

There has never been one rule followed by every Serbian village and family. In some traditions the domaćin himself occupies the head, while in others the position is given to the most honoured guest, the oldest respected relative, the kum, or the priest if one is present; where the domaćin dvori slavu and spends much of the meal serving everyone else, giving the čelo to an honoured guest makes perfect sense.

Guests seated at the table filled with predjelo (appetizers)

Older customs could become extremely formal about seating, age and who had the right to make the first toast, although most modern households are considerably more relaxed.

Still, even today, if there is one chair at the end of the table that nobody seems willing to take, there is probably a reason.

“Na slavu se ne zove”

One of the best-known Serbian sayings about the celebration is:

“Na slavu se ne zove.” - “You don't invite someone to Slava.”

Taken literally, it sounds like a recipe for hundreds of strangers turning up at the door, but that is not what it means.

Traditionally, once someone had become a regular Slava guest, the relationship continued from year to year; Saint Nicholas still falls on the same date, the family is still celebrating him, and therefore a close friend, relative or neighbour supposedly does not require a fresh formal invitation every December.

In practice, modern Serbs naturally phone each other, send messages and arrange when people will arrive, especially when one family can have several groups of guests passing through the house during the same day.

The saying survives because it expresses something older: Slava guests belong to an established relationship with the household.

Sometimes those relationships last generations, with families attending one another's Slavas long after nobody remembers exactly who first invited whom.

Meat vs. Fish

Once everybody is sitting down, the religious calendar determines what the table looks like.

If a Slava falls during an Orthodox fasting period or on a fasting day, it is traditionally posna, meaning that meat, dairy products and eggs are avoided and fish may be served where the fasting rules permit it. When no such restriction applies, the table can be mrsna, with meat and dairy.

This is particularly visible on Nikoljdan, Saint Nicholas Day on 19 December, because Saint Nicholas is among the most common Serbian family patrons while his feast falls during the Nativity Fast. The result is that one of Serbia's biggest Slava days is strongly associated with fish, beans and other fasting dishes rather than the roast meat that foreigners might otherwise expect from a Serbian feast.

Fasting Version of Slava Meals

Everything else varies by family and region: sarma, soups, fish, roast pork or lamb, pies, cured meats, salads, cakes, pastries, rakija, wine and eventually the familiar Serbian negotiation in which a guest claims to be physically incapable of eating another gram of food while the host explains that he has barely eaten anything.

The exaggeration is part of the fun, but the abundance also reflects an older idea of hospitality: on the day of the family's saint, a guest should leave the house honoured and fed.

How Slava survived Communism

That connection to the home became particularly important after the Second World War.

Socialist Yugoslavia did not erase religion overnight, and the situation differed considerably depending on the decade, republic, profession and individual family, but organized religion lost much of its former public position after the communist takeover. Open religiosity could be particularly awkward for Communist Party members, state officials, military officers or anyone whose professional advancement depended heavily on the socialist system.

Slava nevertheless possessed one enormous advantage over many other religious traditions:

it already belonged inside the house.

A government could remove religious ceremonies from schools or reduce the Church's public role far more easily than it could prevent a family from cooking wheat, lighting a candle and gathering around a table in its own dining room.

Some families continued the full religious ceremony quietly; others kept the meal and family gathering while minimizing the explicitly religious parts; some avoided celebrating openly because of employment or Party membership, while others stopped for a generation and returned to it later. Ethnographic work on the socialist period consequently describes Slava as pushed heavily toward the private sphere rather than simply disappearing.

Saint Sava's story illustrates the change particularly well. His feast had been celebrated as the Slava of Serbian schools before socialist rule, disappeared from the official school calendar after 1945, and returned as the school Slava in 1990.

Inside family homes, however, Slava had never required permission from a school calendar.

That domestic character helped it survive not only socialism but earlier occupations, wars, migrations and changes of state. A Serbian family leaving Bosnia, Croatia, Kosovo, Montenegro or a village somewhere in central Serbia could lose land, property and almost every familiar landmark and still know exactly what day Saint Nicholas, Saint George or Archangel Michael arrived.

Understanding Slava

Perhaps the easiest way to understand Slava is not to look at the saint, the food or even the religious ceremony separately, but to imagine the same family table photographed once every twenty years.

In the first photograph, a boy stands beside his father while the father carries the kolač.

In the next, the boy is the domaćin and his father sits among the older guests.

Another twenty years pass, somebody who appeared in the first photograph is gone, grandchildren have appeared in their place, the house may be different and perhaps the family no longer even lives in Serbia, but the calendar reaches the same date and the same icon comes out above the candle.

This is why Slava could survive so many disruptions that destroyed other customs. It did not depend upon a palace, government, public festival or even a particular village; its archive was the family itself.

The food changes, the guest list changes and eventually the person standing at the head of the household changes too, but the saint stays.